Несколько дней назад пришло в голову, что мы присутствуем при рождении нового направления. Литературы МУЖСКОЙ тематики, мужского взгляда на мир. Это уже не одна-две книжки, родился новый пласт.
Протопопов, Виталис, Новоселов, Юрчук, Никонов, еще новые авторы появляются.
Формирование слоя мужской литературы
Я приветствую подобное развитие.
Так уж у меня получилось, что сначала я прошёл практический курс, а потом теоретический (хотя с трактатом о любви был знаком).
И было очень интересно читать в книгах вышеприведённых авторов тезисы, которые пришлось прочувствовать годами напряжённых нервов.
Отсутствие рефлексии - бабы упорно повторяют одни и те же ошибки.
Хотелка - она самая главная.
Дети стоят на втором месте после внимания самцов.
И главное эта непрекращающаяся борьба за статус, попытки подчинить и стать выше, любой ценой, это из животного мира.
Мне 36 лет и не все мои друзья на практическом опыте убедились в истинности бабологии.
Собственно веду я к чему.
Вижу я три группы ОМП.
1. Знают об истинности бабологии сразу - очень малочисленная группа, знание видимо предаётся от отца.
2. Получили знание практическим опытом.
3. Ещё не получили знание.
Так вот третья группа просто отмахнётся от подобной литературы.
Увы, и мой собственный опыт подсказывает - "пока гром не грянет, мужик не перекрестится".
+ влияние социальных факторов (наступление феминизма как следствие общей деградации общества) приводит к тому, что положительное изменение существующей ситуации возможно только через резкое изменение существующего социального порядка.
Война - первое и наиболее вероятное.
MacDuck
Я ценю, что делаете вы и другие люди.
Только я сильно сомневаюсь в успехе ( в плане предотвращения ситуаций из семейной консультации).
Я нашёл этот форум только тогда, когда был готов к этому знанию. "Учитель приходит тогда, когда готов ученик".
Это потому, что учители приходят и раньше, только ученики не обращают внимания на "глупости".
Так уж у меня получилось, что сначала я прошёл практический курс, а потом теоретический (хотя с трактатом о любви был знаком).
И было очень интересно читать в книгах вышеприведённых авторов тезисы, которые пришлось прочувствовать годами напряжённых нервов.
Отсутствие рефлексии - бабы упорно повторяют одни и те же ошибки.
Хотелка - она самая главная.
Дети стоят на втором месте после внимания самцов.
И главное эта непрекращающаяся борьба за статус, попытки подчинить и стать выше, любой ценой, это из животного мира.
Мне 36 лет и не все мои друзья на практическом опыте убедились в истинности бабологии.
Собственно веду я к чему.
Вижу я три группы ОМП.
1. Знают об истинности бабологии сразу - очень малочисленная группа, знание видимо предаётся от отца.
2. Получили знание практическим опытом.
3. Ещё не получили знание.
Так вот третья группа просто отмахнётся от подобной литературы.
Увы, и мой собственный опыт подсказывает - "пока гром не грянет, мужик не перекрестится".
+ влияние социальных факторов (наступление феминизма как следствие общей деградации общества) приводит к тому, что положительное изменение существующей ситуации возможно только через резкое изменение существующего социального порядка.
Война - первое и наиболее вероятное.
MacDuck
Я ценю, что делаете вы и другие люди.
Только я сильно сомневаюсь в успехе ( в плане предотвращения ситуаций из семейной консультации).
Я нашёл этот форум только тогда, когда был готов к этому знанию. "Учитель приходит тогда, когда готов ученик".
Это потому, что учители приходят и раньше, только ученики не обращают внимания на "глупости".
Вот если бы вся пропаганда СМИ включая фильмы поменяла бы направления и не показывала горы мяса шинкующие десятки людей спасая бабу, которая конечно чистая и непорочная, а показывала бы что то близкое к действительности, эффект бы был.
Кстати, я давно заметил, в русской фантастике, поклонником которой я являюсь резко изменился статус женщины, если раньше она была неприкосновенна, за редким исключением, то теперь мужчины-авторы более реально смотрят на вещи.
Кстати, я давно заметил, в русской фантастике, поклонником которой я являюсь резко изменился статус женщины, если раньше она была неприкосновенна, за редким исключением, то теперь мужчины-авторы более реально смотрят на вещи.
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Про антибаббский начнёшь рассказывать, вообще принимают за сектантку:) Хоть наклейки на машину вешай... и слоган интригующий, для заманухи....Mergen писал(а):Начнёшь мужику, рассказывать что то из этой литературы - смотрят как на дурака. ЗОМБИ!!!
Это дух противоречия..Вот кто из Вас читал всё из рекомедованного учителями?
"The System - the dating dictionary" Doc Love's
http://bookfi.org/dl/1971500/214a0c
"don’t fall in love with someone unless they fall in love with you first"
"Never try to keep someone who does not want to keep you."
“If she gives you threats or ultimatums, she’s out.”
“Ask yourself: Is she part of the crew, or part of the cargo?’“
“Loyalty is numero uno.”–
“If she cheats on him, she will cheat on you.”–
“The only time to beg is when she has a gun at your head.”–
“Say ‘no’ calmly, and she either walks or respects you.”
“Only the rich and the poor can afford divorce.”
“The first date is a job interview.”
“The more money you have, the younger you are!”
“A guy does more homework on the Passat he’s going to buy and keep for 2.4 years than on the woman he’s going to marry and keep forever.”–
...
In college I learned that everyone who was smart used graphs – even athletes! Why? Because if you interpreted them properly, they could predict trends, the weather, or cost per widget. I started my dating graph, not knowing exactly what I was really looking for. In the first column, I put the girl’s name; in the second column, how many dates I had with her; in the third column, money spent per date; and in the fourth, her Interest level at the end of the date (in other words, after her stomach was full).
Guess what? After studying the graph, and after much introspection, I realized the true meaning of my statistics: the more I spent. the lower her Interest Level; and the less I spent the higher her Interest level.I was spending more money on some women because I knew intuitively (my radar!) that these women had low Interest level in me. They were only going out to kill my time and deflate my wallet.
...
“No information equals no blackmail.”
I was strolling around the bookstore looking for the latest self-help books (that further confuse women so they can hurt more men!), when I noticed a couple of “tell-all” books by the exes of two famous male movie stars. (You know these two guys I’m referring to, so I won’t further embarrass them by mentioning their names. One actor just got divorced, and the other guy just died and went to heaven.) After skimming their books, being in Hell would pale in comparison to living with these backstabbers.
These two men revealed too many personal things to their marriage partners, and now the exes are going on the two biggest talk shows with the two biggest talk-show hostesses. Why? “Just to set the record straight” (Who gives a ----?) and promote their juicy tell-all books. One of the two women is even badmouthing the dead man, who cannot possibly defend himself. (All class!) These two women had nothing when they met their men, now they are going to make even more money off them.
In America, gossip and sleaze equal high ratings and book sales. Ask yourself these questions before you flap your lips to your Miss Right: Why is it necessary for her to know this? Is this info ever going to come back and bite me in the butt? Would I want the whole world knowing this about me? During an argument, will she rub this info in my face? If we broke up (and odds are you will), would I still want her to know this about me? What if Miss Right goes on the warpath? Will she air your dirty laundry to everyone you know? (Men from small towns can really relate to this scenario.) Will she like me more and can her knowing this info benefit our relationship?
The Key is to not get sloppy with your big mouth. Why? Because if your breakup is brutal, nothing will be sacred – including your mommy. Someone has brainwashed American men and women into believing that if a man pours his guts out to a woman she will like him more. But the Reality Factor says that this lip-flapping has the opposite effect. Why? Because it lowers her Interest Level. Keep it light and funny – no put-downs, no negatives, and no heavy subjects. Love is fun, not serious like the “experts” imply. Remember, exes love to gossip to everyone about you, write scathing books about you, and end up blabbing their guts out on TV to Rosie and Oprah – so be careful who you confide in.
...
It’s great to be in love, but because you don’t know anything about a woman’s attitude after just three dates, it’s best not to give her too much credit in the attitude department. It takes experiences and lots of time together to find out if she is Loyal, Honest, Trustworthy, Flexible, and a Giver. So restrain yourself and don’t give her credit for what she hasn’t earned just because you have high Interest Level.
Once a week in the newspaper you’ll read about someone standing on the train tracks or trying to outrun the choo-choo, Because the train weighs a lot more, you know who always wins. Entering a relationship is the same as approaching the train tracks: you must stop, look, and listen – then proceed with caution. Dating is the same, get it?
The Key is to not jump in with both feet. Proceed with caution – until she thinks every girl in town is after you. Tell yourself, “Slow it down, boys, slow it down.” Remember, getting hit by a 10,000-ton train doesn’t hurt as much as your true love telling you, “I need my space.”
...
One of my students, a dentist who lives in southern California – the Mercenary capitol of the world! - doesn’t tell his dates what he does until they get off probation (60 days). Until then, he tells them he works in construction. Mercenaries don’t care for construction workers (only construction company owners). He figures a good potential mate will understand the successful man’s dilemma and forgive him his white lie. I’m not telling you guys to lie; just do what fits your personal ethics and morality. What I am trying to do is give you options.
The Key to being 100% covered is to only marry someone who makes, or has, as much cabbage as you do. If she doesn’t make what you do, treat her as a possible Mercenary and only go on inexpensive dates in the first 60 days, which you should be doing anyway. You see, Mercenaries only like expensive dates and cannot endure poverty like a Flexible Giver with high Interest Level can. If she is a good girl she will stick with you, because that’s where her Interest Level lies – and not in your wallet. Remember, good girls know that frugality is a virtue.
http://bookfi.org/dl/1971500/214a0c
"don’t fall in love with someone unless they fall in love with you first"
"Never try to keep someone who does not want to keep you."
“If she gives you threats or ultimatums, she’s out.”
“Ask yourself: Is she part of the crew, or part of the cargo?’“
“Loyalty is numero uno.”–
“If she cheats on him, she will cheat on you.”–
“The only time to beg is when she has a gun at your head.”–
“Say ‘no’ calmly, and she either walks or respects you.”
“Only the rich and the poor can afford divorce.”
“The first date is a job interview.”
“The more money you have, the younger you are!”
“A guy does more homework on the Passat he’s going to buy and keep for 2.4 years than on the woman he’s going to marry and keep forever.”–
...
In college I learned that everyone who was smart used graphs – even athletes! Why? Because if you interpreted them properly, they could predict trends, the weather, or cost per widget. I started my dating graph, not knowing exactly what I was really looking for. In the first column, I put the girl’s name; in the second column, how many dates I had with her; in the third column, money spent per date; and in the fourth, her Interest level at the end of the date (in other words, after her stomach was full).
Guess what? After studying the graph, and after much introspection, I realized the true meaning of my statistics: the more I spent. the lower her Interest Level; and the less I spent the higher her Interest level.I was spending more money on some women because I knew intuitively (my radar!) that these women had low Interest level in me. They were only going out to kill my time and deflate my wallet.
...
“No information equals no blackmail.”
I was strolling around the bookstore looking for the latest self-help books (that further confuse women so they can hurt more men!), when I noticed a couple of “tell-all” books by the exes of two famous male movie stars. (You know these two guys I’m referring to, so I won’t further embarrass them by mentioning their names. One actor just got divorced, and the other guy just died and went to heaven.) After skimming their books, being in Hell would pale in comparison to living with these backstabbers.
These two men revealed too many personal things to their marriage partners, and now the exes are going on the two biggest talk shows with the two biggest talk-show hostesses. Why? “Just to set the record straight” (Who gives a ----?) and promote their juicy tell-all books. One of the two women is even badmouthing the dead man, who cannot possibly defend himself. (All class!) These two women had nothing when they met their men, now they are going to make even more money off them.
In America, gossip and sleaze equal high ratings and book sales. Ask yourself these questions before you flap your lips to your Miss Right: Why is it necessary for her to know this? Is this info ever going to come back and bite me in the butt? Would I want the whole world knowing this about me? During an argument, will she rub this info in my face? If we broke up (and odds are you will), would I still want her to know this about me? What if Miss Right goes on the warpath? Will she air your dirty laundry to everyone you know? (Men from small towns can really relate to this scenario.) Will she like me more and can her knowing this info benefit our relationship?
The Key is to not get sloppy with your big mouth. Why? Because if your breakup is brutal, nothing will be sacred – including your mommy. Someone has brainwashed American men and women into believing that if a man pours his guts out to a woman she will like him more. But the Reality Factor says that this lip-flapping has the opposite effect. Why? Because it lowers her Interest Level. Keep it light and funny – no put-downs, no negatives, and no heavy subjects. Love is fun, not serious like the “experts” imply. Remember, exes love to gossip to everyone about you, write scathing books about you, and end up blabbing their guts out on TV to Rosie and Oprah – so be careful who you confide in.
...
It’s great to be in love, but because you don’t know anything about a woman’s attitude after just three dates, it’s best not to give her too much credit in the attitude department. It takes experiences and lots of time together to find out if she is Loyal, Honest, Trustworthy, Flexible, and a Giver. So restrain yourself and don’t give her credit for what she hasn’t earned just because you have high Interest Level.
Once a week in the newspaper you’ll read about someone standing on the train tracks or trying to outrun the choo-choo, Because the train weighs a lot more, you know who always wins. Entering a relationship is the same as approaching the train tracks: you must stop, look, and listen – then proceed with caution. Dating is the same, get it?
The Key is to not jump in with both feet. Proceed with caution – until she thinks every girl in town is after you. Tell yourself, “Slow it down, boys, slow it down.” Remember, getting hit by a 10,000-ton train doesn’t hurt as much as your true love telling you, “I need my space.”
...
One of my students, a dentist who lives in southern California – the Mercenary capitol of the world! - doesn’t tell his dates what he does until they get off probation (60 days). Until then, he tells them he works in construction. Mercenaries don’t care for construction workers (only construction company owners). He figures a good potential mate will understand the successful man’s dilemma and forgive him his white lie. I’m not telling you guys to lie; just do what fits your personal ethics and morality. What I am trying to do is give you options.
The Key to being 100% covered is to only marry someone who makes, or has, as much cabbage as you do. If she doesn’t make what you do, treat her as a possible Mercenary and only go on inexpensive dates in the first 60 days, which you should be doing anyway. You see, Mercenaries only like expensive dates and cannot endure poverty like a Flexible Giver with high Interest Level can. If she is a good girl she will stick with you, because that’s where her Interest Level lies – and not in your wallet. Remember, good girls know that frugality is a virtue.
Victor Pride
How to Pick the Right Wife
http://boldanddetermined.com/2012/01/21 ... ight-wife/
...
Getting married without a plan and without any forethought is a terrible decision.
Getting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You’ve got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of a determined businessman for it to work.
...
You’ve got to pick the right wife like a businessman picks a company to invest in. It shouldn’t be left to chance (“love”) – you’ve got to be pro-active, know what you want and then go after it.
Marriage isn’t about love or connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and movies. Marriage is an exchange of resources. Your wife shall provide A and you will provide B. If you’re wife doesn’t, or won’t, provide her share then she should not have the privilege of marriage with you.
Marriage is a contract and you’ve got to try your hardest to make sure that contract is re-inforced. You cannot make the best decision when you’re emotionally love-sick like a 16 year old school girl. No businessman who wants to stay in business will sign a contract in an emotional state of mind and no man who wants to stay married will sign all of his power away just because he loves her. It takes rational, clear-headed planning and thinking to pick the right wife material.
...
She should be young.
The woman should 30 years of age MAXIMUM. 25 is even better and 20 is the best age.
It’s a trade off, she gives you her good years and you put up with her in her bad years. Never take a woman already in her bad years.
A young body is especially important for bearing children. Old women cannot have and don’t have healthy children. At 30 years of age a woman is already 15 years past her child-bearing prime.
Single women over the age of 30 have wasted all their pretty years have a lot of random sex and now they want to find a sucker who will take care of them without having to give him any of her good years. Don’t be that sucker.
...
She has to come from an intact family with original mother and father.
No step-mommies and step-daddies. Children from single mommy homes cannot be healthy. A mother simply cannot raise healthy children alone or with step-daddies. You want an emotionally healthy wife.
...
Take a look at all the women in her family, if they are all pig-fat it’s a good idea to walk away as fast as you can.
She should have a pretty face. When her body goes the only thing that will be left is her face and you will have to see it every single day.
...
She must be a “good” girl.
She cannot be a drinker or a smoker or have any tattoos. She cannot have a party girl past, a sordid past, and she cannot have gone out more than a couple times drinking. You cannot turn a whore into a housewife. The more sexual partners she has had the more likely the marriage will end in divorce.
...
She must look up to you and respect you.
Women marry up and men marry down, since the dawn of marriage. If she looks down on you she will leave with your money and your children. You’ve got to be a man that she can look up to, admire, love and respect – always.
...
She should not have any children from a previous affair.
Raising someone else’s child is cuckoldry with your full knowledge and consent.
...
She should be a smiler.
She should smile when she sees you. Her eyes should light up. She should be excited each time she sees you and reward you with her beautiful smile.
A big, bright shining smile from a pretty girl is worth more than any university degree she has, worth more than any job she has, worth more than any other baloney modern women wrongly believe makes them attractive to men.
You want a happy woman. You don’t want a frowning, nagging, pessimistic bride.
Always pick a smiling, warm, happy-go-lucky woman to share your life with.
How to Pick the Right Wife
http://boldanddetermined.com/2012/01/21 ... ight-wife/
...
Getting married without a plan and without any forethought is a terrible decision.
Getting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You’ve got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of a determined businessman for it to work.
...
You’ve got to pick the right wife like a businessman picks a company to invest in. It shouldn’t be left to chance (“love”) – you’ve got to be pro-active, know what you want and then go after it.
Marriage isn’t about love or connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and movies. Marriage is an exchange of resources. Your wife shall provide A and you will provide B. If you’re wife doesn’t, or won’t, provide her share then she should not have the privilege of marriage with you.
Marriage is a contract and you’ve got to try your hardest to make sure that contract is re-inforced. You cannot make the best decision when you’re emotionally love-sick like a 16 year old school girl. No businessman who wants to stay in business will sign a contract in an emotional state of mind and no man who wants to stay married will sign all of his power away just because he loves her. It takes rational, clear-headed planning and thinking to pick the right wife material.
...
She should be young.
The woman should 30 years of age MAXIMUM. 25 is even better and 20 is the best age.
It’s a trade off, she gives you her good years and you put up with her in her bad years. Never take a woman already in her bad years.
A young body is especially important for bearing children. Old women cannot have and don’t have healthy children. At 30 years of age a woman is already 15 years past her child-bearing prime.
Single women over the age of 30 have wasted all their pretty years have a lot of random sex and now they want to find a sucker who will take care of them without having to give him any of her good years. Don’t be that sucker.
...
She has to come from an intact family with original mother and father.
No step-mommies and step-daddies. Children from single mommy homes cannot be healthy. A mother simply cannot raise healthy children alone or with step-daddies. You want an emotionally healthy wife.
...
Take a look at all the women in her family, if they are all pig-fat it’s a good idea to walk away as fast as you can.
She should have a pretty face. When her body goes the only thing that will be left is her face and you will have to see it every single day.
...
She must be a “good” girl.
She cannot be a drinker or a smoker or have any tattoos. She cannot have a party girl past, a sordid past, and she cannot have gone out more than a couple times drinking. You cannot turn a whore into a housewife. The more sexual partners she has had the more likely the marriage will end in divorce.
...
She must look up to you and respect you.
Women marry up and men marry down, since the dawn of marriage. If she looks down on you she will leave with your money and your children. You’ve got to be a man that she can look up to, admire, love and respect – always.
...
She should not have any children from a previous affair.
Raising someone else’s child is cuckoldry with your full knowledge and consent.
...
She should be a smiler.
She should smile when she sees you. Her eyes should light up. She should be excited each time she sees you and reward you with her beautiful smile.
A big, bright shining smile from a pretty girl is worth more than any university degree she has, worth more than any job she has, worth more than any other baloney modern women wrongly believe makes them attractive to men.
You want a happy woman. You don’t want a frowning, nagging, pessimistic bride.
Always pick a smiling, warm, happy-go-lucky woman to share your life with.
Вот золотые слова! Еще бы мужчины и понимали, что именно за абсурдный contract им впаривают.Tio писал(а): Getting married without a plan and without any forethought is a terrible decision.
Getting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You’ve got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of a determined businessman for it to work.
Chinweizu - Anatomy of female power.
Книга относительно старая, в интернете доступен только скан.
http://therawness.com/AFP.pdf
Но все по полочкам. Прочитать стоит хотя-бы оглавление.
Книга относительно старая, в интернете доступен только скан.
http://therawness.com/AFP.pdf
Но все по полочкам. Прочитать стоит хотя-бы оглавление.
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