Overheadman, АБФ = психология. Или тебе кажется, что это математический, физический, химический или еще какой подобный форум, и он под завязку напичкан формулами?
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Алень есть собирательный термин, обозначающий низкое самоопределение мужский качеств, подавленное мужское начало и тэ пэ.
Считаешь этот набор слов таким же точным, как и 2*2=4?
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Чтож ты скопировал только часть с вики?
Ты просил пруфлинк, что психология - это наука.
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Психолохи начнут нести куету про детские травмы, зажимы, комплексы, образы матери и отца, вокруг да около.
Не фантазируй. Нормальные психологи говорят все то же (и много больше), что и на АБФ, только другими словами и, зачастую, с пруфлинками на исследования.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog ... t-the-kids
As I mentioned earlier, custodial parents often want the stepparent to be a real parent with responsibilities for the kids. Most of the evidence suggests doing otherwise, especially if the child is over the age of 6. There’s no firm rules here, and a lot will depend on the reasons for the original family breakdown, and if there have been other stepparents in the child’s life.
realize that as a new person in the home, it's the adult who needs to adapt to the house rules rather than expecting the rules to adapt to them.
https://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about ... ily-issues
Studies show 66% of second marriages involving children from previous marriages end.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog ... ion=128548
The rate of divorce for remarriages that are made with existing children is higher than for first marriages.
I believe those adults who approach remarriage with children based on realistic expectations and not romantic or idealistic ones ("Our love will conquer all") increase their chances for marital success.
Before remarriage, honeymoon harmony may have reigned among them all. Everyone was on best behavior, playing together but not living together. Once they actually form a family unit and begin sharing the same living space, however, the shine of hope quickly wears off and the hard reality of day to day relating sets in. Role changes change relationships when the father or mother's good friend now becomes a live-in parent.
Now differences between stepparent and teenage stepchild over household conduct, between parent and stepparent over child raising, between parent and adolescent over respect for the new marriage, begin to irritate family relationships causing conflicts as incompatibilities become hard to deny and harder to accept.
http://www.notjustthekitchen.com/truth- ... -families/
What stepfamilies themselves, as well as the best family therapists, have known for years, is that the standard of blending is just plain wrong. It not only misrepresents the reality of life for all the players in a remarriage with children; the concept is also unrealistic and harmful to stepfamilies and individual stepfamily members. Indeed, the Blended Family is what we might call a Big Lie, one of the most entrenched and damaging myths when it comes to stepfamily members getting on with it, surviving, and forming meaningful relationships with each other. What we now know, from lived experience and years of research on families of divorce and remarriage with children, is that judging these families by a first family standard — that is, expecting cohesiveness, closeness, and togetherness à la a nuclear family — is the surest way to miss the point entirely. Stepfamilies are not only not an effortless, ambrosial smoothie — they’re not supposed to be. And striving to “achieve” a first-family-ness is likely unhealthy for everyone involved.
В этих цитатах (брал подряд из гугла) американских психологов говорится, что создание семьи с РСП невозможно. При должном усердии есть лишь шанс создать адекватные партнерские отношения. И критика зомбирования народа СМИ и фильмами.